Too fucking busy, and vice versa

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_536" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Hit click and send, that will show um"][/caption] I recently had some downtime so i started to check in with some hooker message boards to see what was going on. True I have checked in with them before but I have not been posting on them. I haven't had time and really sometimes the amount of stupid runs so rampant that it gets frustrating. So over the last few days I've been posting and reading.  Nothing's changed, its still full of stupid and its still frustrating. From the dudes always posting about how to get a freebie, to the girls posting veiled advertisements on boards where that kinda thing isn't allowed, to Mods throwing their considerable weight around. It was like a time machine. I started…
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Act II, Scene II

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_529" align="alignleft" width="249" caption="Freebies its whats for breakfast...NOT"][/caption] I recently had an exchange with another provider on a message board that got me thinking. The subject was simple, some bone head hobbyist posted asking the question. How many times do you have to visit a provider before she will fuck you for free. (always some schmuck on a message board looking for a freebie) It got the typical response from both men and women, which was don't be a ass-hat providers charge for fucking.  I added my two cents and asked the poster when was the last time HE worked for free and then suggested if he was looking to get laid for free that he tap his wife or try his luck using all that charm he displayed…
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Hatred is the coward’s revenge for being intimidated

prostitution
[caption id="attachment_424" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="The duce you say"][/caption] A recent comment on my blog about the last meet and greet I attended got me thinking. The commenter basically said that if it wasn't for "bad" hobbyists that hookers like me would go broke. More then insinuating that escorts have to see not so stellar clients to get by. It's an old argument that I believe is rooted in the age old "you cant say no, you're a hooker" argument that comes up time and time again. I could argue the point until I'm blue in the face that escorts actually do have a choice on who they see and some guys would never accept it. I'm sure I probably will at some point bring it up again (can you say…
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Excuses, Excuses

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[caption id="attachment_403" align="alignleft" width="180" caption="Really, Stop it. "][/caption] You don't get to use me as an excuse for your own bad behavior. If you are grown up enough to pay for the companionship of a lovely young lady, then you are grown up enough to take responsibility for jerking that same lovely lady around all on your own. It was brought to my attention that a girl I am friendly with was told by a client of hers (not mine but hers) that he proclaimed to her and he felt she didn't want to see him (even though she came into town just for the occasion) because I had a snippy exchange with him a while back. [caption id="attachment_405" align="alignright" width="240" caption="nanny nanny boo boo "][/caption] Business is business and…
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A man’s manners are a mirror in which he shows his portrait

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_385" align="alignleft" width="268" caption="Emily Post is on the phone"][/caption] I've been to a lot of parties, all different kinds of parties. Weddings parties, children's parties, cocktail parties, bachelors parties, work Xmas parties, costume parties, fancy A list Hollywood parties, slumber parties, rock and roll sushi parties, frat parties, swinger parties. Small, large, private, public, you get the picture. I've attended a really good cross section of different kinds of parties though out my life. What can I say I'm a notorious party girl. I went to a party the other night, a hobby party. More commonly called a "meet and greet" it's really a cocktail party where providers (hookers) and hobbyists (johns) can meet in a relaxed social setting. Eyeball each other and see if they want to meet…
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