Cha Cha Changes

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[caption id="attachment_1632" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="BuhBye LA"][/caption]I'm moving to Washington DC. In about 45 days (give or take) I will no longer be a Southern California girl, though I'm sure I will bring a little So Cal with me to lovely Chocolate City.  This decision was made a while ago and it's just taken some time to put it into motion as all the many pieces fell into place. I will miss Los Angeles but its time for me to move on to bigger and much better things. I'm excited and terrified all in one but the excitement outweighs the fear of the unknown ten fold. This is a really big deal for me as I've never really lived anywhere but in Los Angeles (6 months in NYC right after college…
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The bigger the better

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[caption id="attachment_1624" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="it glows!"][/caption]Its always a surprise when I get my monthly package for the folks over at Eden Fantasys. This time when I tore open the plan brown wrapper I found the Jelly Royales Dong. Now this is a big sex toy and i just happen to be the kinda girl who likes her toys sizable. I suppose that qualifies me as a size queen.. so be it! My preference is always that fake cocks look fake, even the "realistic" ones. I  want to make sure i remember its not a real boner i'm playing with! I like them in weird colors and  this one did not disappoint. Its a strange bluish color even though its supposed to be clear it almost seems to glow a little.…
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Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely

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[caption id="attachment_1621" align="alignleft" width="183"] time time time[/caption]Stop adding time wasters to shared safety blacklists for dangerous clients! Yes, that's right you heard me, knock that shit off. A blacklist is for serious issues. Not because some one's a dumb fuck or annoying obnoxious gnat in email. That's what your PERSONAL blacklist is for. Shared safety blacklists are for SAFETY ISSUES and and your not helping buy putting  people who are just stupid fucks on blacklists.  If you don't know the difference between a safety issue and some jerk off fucking with your time, then my god its time to talk stock in your business practices and do some self reflection. We all have annoying time wasters up in our in boxes. In fact there's  this hilarious time waster dedicate website…
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