25May 2010 by jennydemilo

Eating our own

sex work
[caption id="attachment_717" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="You're all pretty, now STFU"][/caption] Over the last few months i have been involved in communications with a group of sex workers who are mostly not hookers but sex workers in other areas. Writers, advocates, cam girls, performers and strippers etc. Its been a real eye opener to see  how other groups of sex workers deal with sensitive issues and sex work related issues and really how the group dynamic is shaped when you put different groups of sex workers together in a glass and shake well. Some of it is not pretty at all. In fact a lot of it isn't pretty at all. I have experienced a tremendous amount of infighting and projection. It's interesting because i thought the hooker network was a catty…
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18May 2010 by jennydemilo

The disappearing girl trick

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_707" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="The disappearing girl"][/caption] It happens, someone disappears from the radar. A girl you email with, talk to online, tweet at. Poof, disappears. Her site is down, her phone disconnected, her twitter deleted. It always freaks me out. Usually its just someone taking a break or leaving the game with no fanfare. Sometimes its because someones been outed and they need all their info down NOW.  I once got a crying phone call at 7am from a escort i knew who's grown daughter had been forwarded all her reviews and websites. She was at her straight job and was begging me in tears to get into her website back end and take down all her sites... i did what i could. Girls have disappeared because they were…
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12May 2010 by jennydemilo

Boredom breeds video making…

Niteflirt, sex work
[caption id="attachment_703" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="Wild Thing"][/caption] It's true you know... sitting around playing with my new webcam, i decided to make a clip. Mostly to promote my new venture on the NiteFlirt and to just see what i could come up with. I shouldn't be left with too much time on on my hands... This is the result: couldn't figure out how to embed the video so youz have to clickity the linkity.
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09May 2010 by jennydemilo

Hearding cats and other pastimes

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_680" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Know, it learn, it live it..."][/caption] Verifying references is essential. I'm a reference friendly escort. That basically means i will vouch for a guy I've seen when he wants to see another escort. He gives her my info then she contacts me and i let her know that I've seen him. Its one of the way ladies stay safe. I have a very specific way i do things, i expect the escort to give me enough information on the potential client so that i can easily figure out who shes talking about. His name, email, board handles, cell number and maybe something to jog my memory about him but usually just the specifics he would have used to book with me are needed. I dont see…
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07May 2010 by jennydemilo

Jenny photo party!

photography
I started to shoot more pictures of myself. I had taken a long break (well besides the iphone pics) but  the light in my bedroom has been inspiring me so.. snap, snap, snap.... [caption id="attachment_672" align="aligncenter" width="300" caption="I rarely wear undweware and when i do...."][/caption] Now if i can only figure out how to get it to focus where i want from a remote! ha!
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