10Jun 2010 by jennydemilo

Personal responsibility

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_787" align="alignleft" width="262" caption="Bawk!"][/caption] Personal responsibility is in the news a lot. From the banking crisis to the oil spill. The cry from the more thoughtful among us is, "where  is the personal responsibility." Would the country gotten into the money crisis it is in the bankers personal assets were at risk as they off loaded our risk in their casino style dealings? Doubtful. What about BP and the gulf oil spill. When testifying before Congress the mantra was "its not my fault" 11 people died in that man made disaster, it would be nice of someone sacked up and said "we fucked up, were at fault" it will never happen. I do my best to be responsible for my actions. I'm not perfect but it is a characteristic…
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01Jun 2010 by jennydemilo

Diversification and passive income

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_760" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="It makes the world go around"][/caption] I've been thinking a lot about ways to diversify and to generate a passive income. To that end I've started to create a whole phone sex business, which is right on tract to explode into a good living and I've dipped my toes into the world of cam whoring. The later remains to be seen as far as diversification goes. However it did open the door to me as far as passive income generation. The word of the day is clips. I'm not sure but self generated erotic content in the form of short 2-5 min clips seems to be the wave of the porn future. Its  often discussed  among my piers that the adult business is in trouble and…
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27May 2010 by jennydemilo

On being valued

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_733" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="I roll, you die"][/caption] I've been a pretty loud voice in my small community of sex workers. I've helped a lot of new girls, tried to give back to my community, use the reference system to help keep everyone safe and been burned by people i had once considered friends. That's kinda how it goes.  I invoke a strong response in people. I always have. I started bucking the system when i was 7 years old. In my progressive private school i helped develop the curriculum.. yes, at 7. When i entered college at the age of 15 nothing had changed, i still was bucking the system. It was often a hard earned battle but my critical thinking skills were polished to a fine sheen, if…
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18May 2010 by jennydemilo

The disappearing girl trick

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_707" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="The disappearing girl"][/caption] It happens, someone disappears from the radar. A girl you email with, talk to online, tweet at. Poof, disappears. Her site is down, her phone disconnected, her twitter deleted. It always freaks me out. Usually its just someone taking a break or leaving the game with no fanfare. Sometimes its because someones been outed and they need all their info down NOW.  I once got a crying phone call at 7am from a escort i knew who's grown daughter had been forwarded all her reviews and websites. She was at her straight job and was begging me in tears to get into her website back end and take down all her sites... i did what i could. Girls have disappeared because they were…
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09May 2010 by jennydemilo

Hearding cats and other pastimes

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_680" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Know, it learn, it live it..."][/caption] Verifying references is essential. I'm a reference friendly escort. That basically means i will vouch for a guy I've seen when he wants to see another escort. He gives her my info then she contacts me and i let her know that I've seen him. Its one of the way ladies stay safe. I have a very specific way i do things, i expect the escort to give me enough information on the potential client so that i can easily figure out who shes talking about. His name, email, board handles, cell number and maybe something to jog my memory about him but usually just the specifics he would have used to book with me are needed. I dont see…
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