06Jun 2011 by jennydemilo

Slut Walk Re-Cap

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1462" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="SWOP-LA"][/caption]Slut walk was by all accounts, a success. Could it have been more successful, yes but cant things like this always be? I went to work the SWOP-LA table and help spread the word about sex worker issues. Being as the point of Slut Walk is to bring attention to and stop victim blaming and slut shamming they would be by all accounts a receptive audience. Sex workers are often the targets of slut shaming and are often maligned as well as often being targets of violence and sexual assault. Why? Because people forget were human and think because in many cases the sex work we do is illegal we wont go the authorities to report crimes against us and if we do.. were often not…
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27May 2011 by jennydemilo

Escorts.com Is shutting down

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1443" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="RIP E.com "][/caption]Escorts.com is shutting down in just a few days. Its really to bad i liked that site. I suppose we all should have seen the writing on the wall when a few months back they took all their reviews off line "for maintenance" Before that the company that owns then under went a little visit by federal authorities. Now no one really knows if they were visited because of Escorts.com as the company has its hands in several business from 800 numbers, to webcam sites, to adult film distribution. So really who knows but what we do know is they are shutting escorts.com down end of May. Escorts.com was a great resource for smaller city touring, it was the resource for small town touring.…
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24Apr 2011 by jennydemilo

Not all money is good money

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1421" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="No one wants to fuck Grumpy"][/caption]As an escort you sometimes have to put up with a negative client or potential client. The client that wants you to "sell" yourself to them, the kind that think you need to impress him, woo him, seduce him into booking an appointment with you. They often have a "prove it to me" attitude. These same types of guys also love to tell hot chicks at the strip club no. I think they just go to the strip club so that they can tell hot girls no, when the girls are just  doing their jobs and trying to hustle dances. I never go out of my way to book those style of potential clients, in fact just the opposite.  I usually…
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07Apr 2011 by jennydemilo

Domme-land, escort-land and the all mighty reference

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1384" align="alignleft" width="265" caption="Another day at the office "][/caption]I am both an escort and a professional Domme. I work in both worlds and though both are sex work there are particulars and specifics to each niche.  For example references. In escort-land references have become very common place. It's one of the ways all parties stay safe.  As an escort I ask for a reference all the time, it's  given that I will ask for them and check them after one is given. In Domme-land... not so much. The fetish providers haven't embraced the reference system the way the escorts have. Likely because being a Domme  is legal sex work. Well, for the most part. However Domme's can and do get arrested for solicitation. There are fetish activities that cross…
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21Mar 2011 by jennydemilo

Love letters

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1333" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="To whom it may concern "][/caption]It happened again as it does almost weekly. Another women not in the sex for money biz asking me for help in how to get into the sex for money biz. I have written over and over again who I'm not going to help people get into turning tricks. Not going to do it so stop asking me. Since they all seem to find me via this blog were i specifically stated i will NOT help you i find int baffling why i still get these emails. The email usually come in two forms.     A. I'm a educated self assured women who wants to get into the business and have real relationships with a few rich men. B. I'm…
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