A. I’m a educated self assured women who wants to get into the business and have real relationships with a few rich men.
B. I’m the worlds best lay so i should be getting paid for it.
To person A: go find a rich boyfriend because with all your self perceived super smarts you have bought into the TV movie aspect of the high priced call girl. Oh and I’m not helping you.
To person B. Go fuck for free, to get your need for your super fucking skills ego stroked. its not about how well you fuck, its about how well you service your clients needs. Oh and I’m not helping you.
I did muse to a friend at lunch yesterday after reading her portions of the latest email beg for part of my soul that maybe this latest hopeful should be a ho considering how much she thought she was owed by strangers. I see way to much if that attitude in an industry that’s supposed to be service oriented. Way too much.
I totally understand what you mean about “entitled” types seeking freebie advice. They should have the courtesy to at least pay you a consultation fee.
The harsh reality is exactly as you described it: trial and error. There are no short cuts.
Oh, but those people emailing you are probably deluded into believing they can short cut the learning process by trying to hitch on your train. In this case, they should pay you for your time to remove their blindfolds:)
I love your cold black bitter heart.
Just sayin, 😉