Mind your own fucking business

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[caption id="attachment_243" align="alignleft" width="206" caption="STFU"][/caption] I've been seeing it enough that I felt i should say something. It's always been there but usually it's well hidden and rarely bubbles to the point of being so public. With times being tough for most (yes, even escorts) people are becoming less and less secretive about sticking their noses in other people business under the guise of "defending a client" What it really is, is a couple competitors slugging it out in a public forum to try to gain more business. Or usually it's more like one lady calling out another lady publicly with the hopes that it will end up that the money (hobbyist) will follow the big mouth fuss maker. Just because a client tells you "Provider X, is demanding I…
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Meet and Greets- the new place to get arrested!

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There was a meet and greet busted in Houston recently. (Yeah Houston was busted again). Meet and greets are like cocktail parties where potential clients and working escorts can get together and meet and mingle. There are all different kinds of parties Many are very tame like your typical office cocktail party all the way to a full on orgy, though those are pretty rare these days and usually very hard to get an invite too.The typical meet and greet is much like any other business networking get together. People of like minds meet at a public restaurant, bar, banquet hall and have a few cocktails and exchange contact info for get togethers on later dates. I understand why these are popular with the men. They get to see the…
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How to never get a reference from Jenny DeMilo

prostitution, sex work
Part of being an escort that cares about other escorts safety is being reference friendly. What that means is an escort will ask a potential client for another lady he's visited to vouch for him. The potential client gives the new lady the contact info of the lady vouching him and then she emails her asking for the reference.I've been reference friendly since I began as an escort, I'm always happy to help a lady and a client out by doing my part to keep everyone safe. I rarely have an issue, the ladies I've dealt with when I requested a reference have pretty much been polite, responsive and friendly. Of course I know that they are doing me a personal favor by giving me the reference and I make…
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5 common mistakes escorts make

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Many aspiring escorts make rookie mistakes. many long time vets in the biz make them too. There's no book you can read to tell you how to be a good escort and being a good escort is so much more then just knowing out to knock a clients socks off in bed or to be great client focused company. It's running a small business and business practices do come into play, as well as using your common sense. Ive put together some common and typical mistakes escort make and some easy solutions.1. Putting your menu on your websiteDON'T do it! it can be used as evidence against you in a court of law. It really can. if you say "yeah i will have sex with you for XX dollars" they…
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I might be a Whore but I’m not a Hole

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The email came in like any other, a response to an ad i had placed in a city, in another state i was visiting. However i hadn't received one like this in a while..."need you by 9:00 pm tonight. if too much bullshit, foreget about it."Well where do i sign up! emails like this usually just go straight into the trash because lets be honest I'm not a hole don't i don't enjoy being treated as one. That's exactly what this email does, let me break it down.1. no salutation or greeting- devoid of using my name ( to further dehumanize me)2. a demanding i need you by 9pm tonight inquiry (with no mention of screening info)3. "if its to much bullshit..." (again implies screening with be an issue, in…
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