Jenny DeMilo

But, but, but .. you’re a whore!

So I’ve been reading the hooker message boards and zeroing in on this months latest trend. Men upset that the “whores” wont service them. But you’re a whore you HAVE to see anyone who will pay you. You don’t have choices because you’re a whore. You cant refuse me for being a entitled ass hat because you’re a WHORE

whore whore whore whore!

I’m quite sure i know what it is a do for a living, i mean i am the one fucking strangers in hotels for greenbacks but thanks for the reminder. The real question is, what is up with these guys? Have they been refused by the “whores” a lot? doubtful, my guess is they are the guys who when they were young men maybe in high-school maybe when thy were a little older who’s greatest fear with women was/is… rejection.

They feel powerless, they are not comfortable engaging women in a real way and have eventually found themselves in the pay for play game. Because they feel that when they pay they have the power and the fact that a WHORE could reject them is one of their greatest fears. To get rejected by a women who gets paid to be there is so scary to them that they go on a rampage on message boards to try to get though to these whores and their supporters they they whores shouldn’t have a choice so that they will never be in the position to be rejected by one. So they act out anonymously on message boards because if they used their real”handles” they whores might not see them so they have to do it from behind a mask and berate the whores, incite them men who generally like the whores and stomp their little feet and gnash their little teeth.

if it didn’t get so tiresome or wasn’t so pathetic, I’d find it funny.

it can be hurtful no matter how thick your skin is to be denigrated by a segment of a community who really should be more supportive since they engage in the same activities be it on the other side of the fence. Sex workers are often terribly put down by society we are not accepted and its disheartening when we are not accepted by our own. it can grate on you and often does.

I’m sure I’m just being an uppity whore.

5 thoughts on “But, but, but .. you’re a whore!

  1. Gethin Bryce

    Well, I guess their mistake is that they think of sex workers as "Whores"… If anything, that's the first showing of their insecurities and shortcomings.

    A good read, thanks for posting it Jenny, as always I love reading your take on your chosen profession and the people in it 🙂

  2. Anonymous

    Ha ha. Love reading your blog, Jenny. I used to be a dancer, and at strip clubs, guys just get off so much on rejecting girls who are trying to sell dances. They elbow each other and laugh together at you. It's part of the fun. I'll bet they come from the same bag of marbles as your "friends" on the message boards.

  3. Sexy PTA Mom

    I'm sorry they are so mean. Name calling (in a bad way) is just the tip of the iceberg of their nastiness I'm guessing. I have a good friend who is a part time escort in your general area, and the stories that she tells me blow my mind. She isn't the type to take much crap, but still. She's a human being with feelings, people! I completely agree that it must be some pathetic form of fear of rejection. Heck, we're all afraid of rejection; doesn't give you call to be a jerk.

  4. Alva Goldbook

    Words can be dangerous things. Once a meaning, especially a derogitory one has been applied to someone or something, it's hard to change people's minds that things are more complex then they seem. Really I think we should replace the term "whore" with "miracle worker", because that's exactly what they do. 🙂