11Apr 2010 by jennydemilo

Too fucking busy, and vice versa

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_536" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Hit click and send, that will show um"][/caption] I recently had some downtime so i started to check in with some hooker message boards to see what was going on. True I have checked in with them before but I have not been posting on them. I haven't had time and really sometimes the amount of stupid runs so rampant that it gets frustrating. So over the last few days I've been posting and reading.  Nothing's changed, its still full of stupid and its still frustrating. From the dudes always posting about how to get a freebie, to the girls posting veiled advertisements on boards where that kinda thing isn't allowed, to Mods throwing their considerable weight around. It was like a time machine. I started…
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08Apr 2010 by jennydemilo

Act II, Scene II

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_529" align="alignleft" width="249" caption="Freebies its whats for breakfast...NOT"][/caption] I recently had an exchange with another provider on a message board that got me thinking. The subject was simple, some bone head hobbyist posted asking the question. How many times do you have to visit a provider before she will fuck you for free. (always some schmuck on a message board looking for a freebie) It got the typical response from both men and women, which was don't be a ass-hat providers charge for fucking.  I added my two cents and asked the poster when was the last time HE worked for free and then suggested if he was looking to get laid for free that he tap his wife or try his luck using all that charm he displayed…
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06Apr 2010 by jennydemilo

Tour Sick

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_522" align="alignleft" width="221" caption="Hit the road Jack"][/caption] It happens to the best of us. You can't avoid it. You always think you will but then you get in the middle of it and realize you are powerless and you have just become tour sick. Lots of escorts like me hit the road and tour. Were like rock bands only without the bus and the groupies. Well, some of us have groupies but not int he same way. You drag out your suitcase and start to pack, a variety of work clothes (i mean who travels with that much lingerie but hookers) way to many shoes, and  sex toys (take that TSA). Then  pick a city to go visit for a few days. Now in order to save expenses many…
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04Apr 2010 by jennydemilo

Stalk her? I don’t even know her!

sex work
[caption id="attachment_503" align="alignleft" width="233" caption="serendipity or stalking"][/caption] I've been stalked. I've been stalked in my real life a few years back, it was the first time something like that happened to me. I didn't know who my stalker was but wow he sure knew a lot about me. My name, where I lived, my phone number, details about my life. It was pretty awful. I had to inform my neighbors, my landlord, my parents and the police. Yes i contacted the police. I slept with a baseball bat under my bed and registered for a concealed weapons permit. It went on for about a year. I took advice from everyone with knowledge on how to handle the situation and what to do. I'm sure that advice I followed kept me…
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01Apr 2010 by jennydemilo

Risk Management

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_493" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="I don't think I am going to say, "What the fuck?" anymore "][/caption] Working as an escort can be dangerous. Its not like any other job you can have. You put yourself into dangerous situations. Clients are bigger, stronger and you are often alone with them on strange territory and on their terms. So you need to do things to protect yourself, to limit your risks. An escorts first line of defense is screening. Now I'm not going to get into too much detail here about the how of screening, you can just call that a trade secret. It is though ever evolving. Think of it like a living document. As escorts become more and more visible in the mainstream world, more people come to know…
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