Adult content?

sex work
So Youtube in all their wisdom has spent some time removing my video clips from their site because they are now considered after 100K views to be"adult content" and or my "INTENTION" and sole purpose was convey sexual gratification. Of course that's all bullocks. Its not "adult content" its my mouth with some spit. My intention was to drive traffic and well if you got a hard-on and it made you uncomfortable because you saw me spitting and drooling then that's on you... uptight prude. This clip was also removed from the fetish site Wewhipass  for being "nasty" (yes the same site i watched a clip of a guy being lashed in public and another getting fucked in the ass with a strap on) and then later i was told…
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Reaching Out – Eros Guide Update

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1275" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="Shoot that poison arrow..."][/caption]I have written critically in the past about escort support services, Yanno those pesky mall advertising sites, photographers, designers etc., we all need to help our business grow and flourish. One site  i was concerned about and wrote freely about was The Eros Guide. Now i like the Eros guide i always have,  in the past when Eros was flourishing, i was as well. With the downturn in the economy (yes, escorts are not recession proof) it made us (me) as escorts find ways to work smarter not harder so everything had a turn under the harsh light of cost benefit analysis and the Eros Guide even though liked them personally got their turn. Lets face it they are expensive and when moneys…
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Escort mode

prostitution
[caption id="attachment_1169" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="The elephant in the room is im a hooker "][/caption]I've been escorting for years and been involved in the sex business in one for or another for even longer. It will effect how you see the world and how you do things. Some positive, some negative. The sum of my experiences makes me who i am, motives me and shapes my world view. Being an escort isn't about your needs, your sexuality or you anything. Its a service industry job. you are there to serve another's needs. I get approached all the time by young hopefuls as i like to call the. Many right after some big glossy pretty exciting hooker story breaks in the news. They want to be escorts because they think its glamorous,…
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Pas jolie, du tout

photography, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1062" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Jump on everyones doing it"][/caption] It happens from time to time. Another escort jumps on your band wagon. It happens to me more then just time to time but it happens to most girls who put a lot of effort into their branding and marketing. Some lazy bitch tries to steal your Mojo. It can be as blatant as coping and pasting your ad copy or website copy and using at their own, to as insidious as following you around on tour, to as annoying as taking your signature branding and trying to co-opt it. It happened to me again, well twice this week really. A girl has decided to plant her ass everywhere I'm touring. A girl who i generally don't get along with who…
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