10Dec 2010 by jennydemilo

She said thanks

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[caption id="attachment_1166" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Swim duck Swim "][/caption]A few years back a beautiful girl got in touch with me who had just started out escorting. I liked her, she has style and was cool. I gave her a few tidbits of my experience and helped her out when i could when she asked for advice. Today i got an email from her, she's moved on with her life and retired from the game. She's doing amazing things in both her work life and her personal life. But the best part is, she said thanks. Not in a big way, just as an aside but it touched my cold bitter black heart.  It's a rarity when someone thanks you and means it. Especially in this self obsessed "what can you do…
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04Dec 2010 by jennydemilo

Over sharing on the tubes

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[caption id="attachment_1151" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Nothing is too personal"][/caption] There's been a lot of over sharing the tubes. That doesn't mean sharing, part of the fun of the Internet is sharing and connecting with like minded people. I'm talking about OVER sharing. Divulging every singe thought that pops into your head, every single detail of your life. Using the Internet for validation on your thought process and existence is a slippery slope. Especially if you are a sex worker. Take twitter for example. Sex workers use Twitter for various reasons, to connect with other women in the biz. Its really the best way to organise your own support system (I've written about that before) its also a way to market yourself, you can shape your own message. Be who you want…
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28Nov 2010 by jennydemilo

Fuck you pay me!

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[caption id="attachment_1145" align="alignleft" width="236" caption="Fuck you, Pay me!"][/caption] I will not chat you up for free, i will not date you for free, I'm a sex worker, a clip makers, a Domme, a PSO, an escort.  That means you need to pay me for my time. Be it phone sex, sexy chat on IM or in person. You want to get my attention, then do something attention worthy.  Get my attention with your wallet. Buying one 2.99 clip isn't going to get you unlimited back and forth emails (try buying 20) , the promise of something off my wish list then not following though will only show you for the douche you truly are (that i suspected all along). Follow though matters if you want my sexual attention, want to…
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25Nov 2010 by jennydemilo

I didn’t get nothin’. I had to pay fifty dollars, and pick up the garbage

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[caption id="attachment_1136" align="aligncenter" width="240" caption="Closed on Thanksgiving"][/caption] It's that time of year again when we all reflect on what we are thankful for and i am no different. Just another reminder that sex workers are just like everyone else and not some mythical untouchable beasts. A lot has changed for me over the year, I've changed a lot in a year its funny how that can happen. I stood my ground,  branched out, put my education to use and cleaned my emotional house. All to varying degrees of success. Yanno just getting though another year... My list for 2010. 1. The love of someone special 2. Little girls with big vocabularies 3. Friends who value you as much as you value them, do anything to make you laugh and take…
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