07Nov 2010 by jennydemilo

Cha-Cha-Changes

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1093" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="Poof!"][/caption] The holidays are fast approaching and last night we just changed the clocks (fall back!) its as close to actual seasons we get out here in sunny Southern California. There are some changes in the world of Jenny as well. Touring: My touring is on hold. I may make it out to a few cities for weekends but i wont be doing any extensive touring until after the first of the year an even then i'm not sure when it will pick back up. I'm still available to travel for overnights but those need to be on the weekends with a bit of prior notice. Escort availability: Real word responsibilities has once again decreased my availability. Daytime appointments are no longer available unless its on…
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01Nov 2010 by jennydemilo

Pick a side

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1083" align="alignleft" width="222" caption="What can you do for me..."][/caption] Sometimes you just have to sack up and pick a side. Be it in regards to your personal relationships or when its time to stand up for your core beliefs. I see a lot of wishy washy, namby pamby, bullshit these days. People and by people I mean my contemporaries just not picking a side. Trying to play all sides off the middle when it comes to the personal relationships with their love ones, their colleagues.. their congressman. Waiting until their hand is forced and they are left with no options but the one of least resistance. It's hardly standing up and making choices when you let yourself be backed into a corner because it's easier to let things happen…
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19Oct 2010 by jennydemilo

It’s all fun and games until someone loses an eye

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1074" align="alignleft" width="270" caption="Every day of my life"][/caption] You hear it all the time or maybe just i hear it all the time. Escorts fretting about how to maintain a relationship with a man and still continue to be an escort. How do you establish and maintain something real, solid with someone you connect with and still make a living as a sex worker. Its not easy, but then again when is any relationship easy? Never. Relationships are a lot of work, all relationships. I've found its easier to maintain a  love relationship with a man as an escort then to maintain friendships with other women in the business. Maybe because when you enter a relationship with a man as an escort the key element you need to pay…
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15Oct 2010 by jennydemilo

Pas jolie, du tout

photography, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1062" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Jump on everyones doing it"][/caption] It happens from time to time. Another escort jumps on your band wagon. It happens to me more then just time to time but it happens to most girls who put a lot of effort into their branding and marketing. Some lazy bitch tries to steal your Mojo. It can be as blatant as coping and pasting your ad copy or website copy and using at their own, to as insidious as following you around on tour, to as annoying as taking your signature branding and trying to co-opt it. It happened to me again, well twice this week really. A girl has decided to plant her ass everywhere I'm touring. A girl who i generally don't get along with who…
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10Oct 2010 by jennydemilo

Deceitful pretenses

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1052" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="Let me tell you what i know..."][/caption] There has been a rash "escort blogs" handing out bad advice. Self proclaimed insiders blogging anonymously, meaning they are not blogging under their "working names" so their inclusion into the business cant be verified. What can be verified though, is they are handing out bad advice to both clients and sex workers. This kinda thing really irks me and i try to debunk the crap when confronted by it but it gets exhausting when i see smart people in the business just taking this crap on face value because it has the word "escort" or "sex worker" attached to it. Did the fauxho scandal of last year not teach us anything? I'm often amazed at how a group of…
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