07Apr 2011 by jennydemilo

Domme-land, escort-land and the all mighty reference

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1384" align="alignleft" width="265" caption="Another day at the office "][/caption]I am both an escort and a professional Domme. I work in both worlds and though both are sex work there are particulars and specifics to each niche.  For example references. In escort-land references have become very common place. It's one of the ways all parties stay safe.  As an escort I ask for a reference all the time, it's  given that I will ask for them and check them after one is given. In Domme-land... not so much. The fetish providers haven't embraced the reference system the way the escorts have. Likely because being a Domme  is legal sex work. Well, for the most part. However Domme's can and do get arrested for solicitation. There are fetish activities that cross…
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30Jul 2010 by jennydemilo

Taken down HARD

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_889" align="alignleft" width="199" caption="You have the right.. oh fuck your rights"][/caption] A well known agency was busted. Miami Companions. They went down hard. 5 people arrested so far. From the looks if it they got the owners, the office manager, the bookkeeper and what looks like may be the recruiter. Many government agencies are involved including immigration and the IRS. This is bad news. I'm a well known independent sex worker and i have very little love for agencies in general for several reasons. A. Most tend to be shady operations that are thinly veiled pimps where greedy men (and sometimes women) are making large bucks on the backs of hard working sex workers. They overwork them and take most of the money (in Vegas the girls  work on…
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09May 2010 by jennydemilo

Hearding cats and other pastimes

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_680" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Know, it learn, it live it..."][/caption] Verifying references is essential. I'm a reference friendly escort. That basically means i will vouch for a guy I've seen when he wants to see another escort. He gives her my info then she contacts me and i let her know that I've seen him. Its one of the way ladies stay safe. I have a very specific way i do things, i expect the escort to give me enough information on the potential client so that i can easily figure out who shes talking about. His name, email, board handles, cell number and maybe something to jog my memory about him but usually just the specifics he would have used to book with me are needed. I dont see…
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