18Oct 2011 by jennydemilo

Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1621" align="alignleft" width="183"] time time time[/caption]Stop adding time wasters to shared safety blacklists for dangerous clients! Yes, that's right you heard me, knock that shit off. A blacklist is for serious issues. Not because some one's a dumb fuck or annoying obnoxious gnat in email. That's what your PERSONAL blacklist is for. Shared safety blacklists are for SAFETY ISSUES and and your not helping buy putting  people who are just stupid fucks on blacklists.  If you don't know the difference between a safety issue and some jerk off fucking with your time, then my god its time to talk stock in your business practices and do some self reflection. We all have annoying time wasters up in our in boxes. In fact there's  this hilarious time waster dedicate website…
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09Oct 2011 by jennydemilo

Ripped Off

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1606" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="getting ripped off!"][/caption]A civvie friend of mine, from way before high school, I've pretty much known him all my life tells me he's broken up with his girlfriend and is thinking about seeing a hooker. Now the funny thing is this friend of mine doesn't know I'm a escort! He  knows I work as a Pro Domme, he knows I know something about the sex business and that I'm open minded and have never judged him about anything. I give him the low down, I tell him how not to get ripped off. How to cross check reviews to ads, where to look for reviews, what mall sites to look on, how to check phone numbers, reputations, web presence and most of all how to spot…
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15Aug 2011 by jennydemilo

Use a strap-on go to jail

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1575" align="alignleft" width="208"] Enough about me ...[/caption]Pssst Dommes fucking a guy with a strap-on in exchange for cash is prostitution. So maybe you'd like to think about not  judging prostitutes who exchanging sex for money. If you strap on a cock and give it to a man up the ass and he pays you for that service, that's exchanging sex for money. Just because you're not being sexually satisfied and catering to someone else needs doesn't mean it's not prostitution. It is. Do you really think that escorts, hookers, call girls whatever you wanna label the illegal sex work of exchanging money for sex are getting off and being sexually fulfilled in every appointment or do you think they are doing a job in exchange for cash? Yanno just…
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01Jul 2011 by jennydemilo

Ashton Kutcher Vs Village Voice Media

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1514" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="Ok to play a sex worker, not ok to be one?"][/caption]The Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore's anti trafficking campaign "Real men don't buy girls" has long bothered me. It's made me so upset that i haven't been able to write about it because i get too emotional when trying to put my thoughts down in writing. It bothers me for a lot of reasons. Because its the celeb cause of the day, because it's always felt so completely dishonest, because it conflates sexual slavery of under age children with that of consensual paid sex acts between adults, because it ignores BOYS (as if they are never victims of trafficking) and i could go on and on and on and on and on. It upsets me and…
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21Jun 2011 by jennydemilo

Southwest Companions Compromised

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1494" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="Compromised"][/caption]Another escort review/message board went down in flames yesterday. This time southwest companions. Though the site is still up and apparently live. The owner of the small board was arrested in New Mexico on 40 counts of promoting prostitution. The media is having a frenzy as always and calling it a "prostitution ring" Which of course the site isn't. Its a review board and message board like so many across the nation.Southwest Companions was a private board, the general public wasn't welcome. You had to be referenced in to get access to the message board, reviews etc. Just like so many smaller boards. Make no mistake about it southwest companions is a very small message board in the grand scheme of escort message boards.It serviced a…
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