Hatred is the coward’s revenge for being intimidated

prostitution
[caption id="attachment_424" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="The duce you say"][/caption] A recent comment on my blog about the last meet and greet I attended got me thinking. The commenter basically said that if it wasn't for "bad" hobbyists that hookers like me would go broke. More then insinuating that escorts have to see not so stellar clients to get by. It's an old argument that I believe is rooted in the age old "you cant say no, you're a hooker" argument that comes up time and time again. I could argue the point until I'm blue in the face that escorts actually do have a choice on who they see and some guys would never accept it. I'm sure I probably will at some point bring it up again (can you say…
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Excuses, Excuses

sex work
[caption id="attachment_403" align="alignleft" width="180" caption="Really, Stop it. "][/caption] You don't get to use me as an excuse for your own bad behavior. If you are grown up enough to pay for the companionship of a lovely young lady, then you are grown up enough to take responsibility for jerking that same lovely lady around all on your own. It was brought to my attention that a girl I am friendly with was told by a client of hers (not mine but hers) that he proclaimed to her and he felt she didn't want to see him (even though she came into town just for the occasion) because I had a snippy exchange with him a while back. [caption id="attachment_405" align="alignright" width="240" caption="nanny nanny boo boo "][/caption] Business is business and…
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A man’s manners are a mirror in which he shows his portrait

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_385" align="alignleft" width="268" caption="Emily Post is on the phone"][/caption] I've been to a lot of parties, all different kinds of parties. Weddings parties, children's parties, cocktail parties, bachelors parties, work Xmas parties, costume parties, fancy A list Hollywood parties, slumber parties, rock and roll sushi parties, frat parties, swinger parties. Small, large, private, public, you get the picture. I've attended a really good cross section of different kinds of parties though out my life. What can I say I'm a notorious party girl. I went to a party the other night, a hobby party. More commonly called a "meet and greet" it's really a cocktail party where providers (hookers) and hobbyists (johns) can meet in a relaxed social setting. Eyeball each other and see if they want to meet…
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It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation

photography
[caption id="attachment_380" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="it's not the real thing"][/caption] Owning a camera doesn't make you a photographer. Sucking the occasional dick for pocket change dont make you a high dollar hottie and writing in your diary don't make you a published writer. If imitation is the sincerest form of flattery then I am being flattered up the ass recently. Here's the thing, I'm original, a free thinker, imaginative and sharp as a tack. I think in concepts and just as soon as you try to appropriate my style, I'm already two steps over to the next bright shinny thing. I'm a consummate artist who lives her art and I am always looking for the next exciting thing and creative adventure to participate in. So suck up my table scraps losers,…
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2% butterscotch ripple

sex work
[caption id="attachment_368" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="Do not try to shortchange the Muse"][/caption] I write. True I also  fuck for money but I write for money too. Since I started writing professionally I have run into my fair share of writers block. Though I do on occasion use prompts to help get my creative juices flowing, most of the time  when blocked I look feverishly for inspiration where ever I can find it. When getting creatively blocked as an escort (yes being an escort has a creative slant to it, seriously it does) you can do a few things to get your mojo back. My favorite being the "fake it until you make it" response. It's not so easy to fake it until you make it when you're dealing with concept, story…
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