11Aug 2010 by jennydemilo

The outing epidemic

phone sex, sex work
[caption id="attachment_932" align="alignleft" width="259" caption="How can i get you off..."][/caption] It happened again a sex worker preemptively outed herself. This time it was the twitter sensation "TeleEroticist" a phone sex operator who with a popular twitter feed where she was both witty and interesting detailing her work as a PSO. Some dude who knew her in her real life decided he was going to out her and  he took steps. She outed herself as a preemptive strike.  Bell De Jour the blogger turned novelist, turned subject of a Showtime TV series about hooking was finally forced to out herself when an ex decided he was going to out her. It sucks, this is just the latest example. It's an epidemic. I don't know a escort that hasn't at least been…
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10Aug 2010 by jennydemilo

Vetting

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_919" align="alignleft" width="197" caption="Information is power"][/caption] What is vetting? Websters says vetting is: b : to evaluate for possible approval or acceptance <vet the candidates for a position> How does vetting work in the escort world. Well escorts get vetted by potential clients. They read our websites, they read out reviews, they read our blogs, our twitter our board posts. some potential clients go over everything we've ever said with a fine tooth comb. they even are encouraged by other whore mongers to  message people who have written reviews about us to ask for information what was not included in the review. we get vetted up one side and down the other so potential clients can make what they feel is an informed decision before they purchase a tasty…
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04Aug 2010 by jennydemilo

Trade Secrets

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_903" align="alignleft" width="175" caption="Miss Barbara knows how to screen"][/caption] An escort screening her clients is the number one thing she can do to stay safe in this often risky business. You MUST know who you will be opening the door to. Its an imperative, it will keep you free and it will keep you alive. Devising a screening process and staying on top of that process and keeping it current and relevant is something every escort must do and those that don't will eventually end up in jail, hurt, or dead. Screening is important. I will shout from the roof tops and often have how important it is to screen. I will also be just as vocal and just as passionate about how you do NOT give the "how"…
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03Aug 2010 by jennydemilo

Everything starts with a strong determination.

sex work
[caption id="attachment_897" align="alignleft" width="205" caption="A donut without a hole, is a Danish"][/caption] Sometimes is not easy being the ball. I'm not wired to let things go and its never easy for me not to give a shit. I'm working to change that. Today i need to try twice as hard to crawl out of the crab barrel before the other crabs pull me back down. What kinds of causes am I making right now? "What actions am I taking? The answers to these questions are what will determine my future. Don't think i dont know that I'm blowing your mind
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30Jul 2010 by jennydemilo

Taken down HARD

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_889" align="alignleft" width="199" caption="You have the right.. oh fuck your rights"][/caption] A well known agency was busted. Miami Companions. They went down hard. 5 people arrested so far. From the looks if it they got the owners, the office manager, the bookkeeper and what looks like may be the recruiter. Many government agencies are involved including immigration and the IRS. This is bad news. I'm a well known independent sex worker and i have very little love for agencies in general for several reasons. A. Most tend to be shady operations that are thinly veiled pimps where greedy men (and sometimes women) are making large bucks on the backs of hard working sex workers. They overwork them and take most of the money (in Vegas the girls  work on…
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