23Jan 2012 by jennydemilo

War of the words

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1707" align="alignleft" width="189"] I've got your dewey decimal system[/caption]Its seems as if its always such an uphill battle, you're always pushing that heavy rock up that very big hill, the war of the words, the fight for the narrative when it comes to sex work and sex workers. It's frustrating when people who aren't sex workers "get it wrong"even when they mean well. When you run across someone misusing the correct terminology  and conflating and isolating prostitution with "sex work"  it can be disheartening, frustrating and very annoying because you know when you come across that, that you are losing narrative ground in the battle of the words. I try to be understanding when i come face to face with it but lets face it, I'm outspoken and often…
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12Jan 2012 by jennydemilo

Grunt, scratch balls and grunt again

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1696" align="alignleft" width="300"] Youre about this subtle[/caption]I recently read a blog by a feisty redheaded colleague of mine about why top tier experienced escorts are leaving the business and her take wasn't the economy, it was dealing with idiot clients or those that wished to become them. I think shes right, the bullshit has increased. Maybe because escorting is more accessible to the masses so there's a bigger pool of numb nuts who spend their time sending out inquiries. I don't know the why of it but i know it happens. A recent inquiry i got seemed to fit right in with this theory. I was contacted via a screening service, the potential client had seen a couple other legit girls (though their rates were a quarter of mine) …
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10Jan 2012 by jennydemilo

The tortoise not the hare

Jenny DeMilo, sex work
I'm slowly but steadily (yanno like the tortoise) adding all my clips to my fetish clips own site. Every day a few more are being added, little by little. In addition of course to my femdom erotic hypnosis Mp3's (hot sellers they are) So make sure to check out my very on fetish clip site where you can purchase gems like "jerk off to my tits" oh what a masterpiece! [caption id="attachment_1691" align="aligncenter" width="640"] You know you wanna....[/caption]
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05Jan 2012 by jennydemilo

Clip Sites And The Implied Deal

Internet, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1684" align="alignleft" width="200"] Quiet on the set[/caption]If you're selling your content be it porn or fetish content and if your selling it though a clip site then you are not making 100% on your work. There is an implied deal with the clip site you are selling your content though. You give of X percentage of your profits in exchange for X services from the clip site. So what are those X's you are giving up and getting. Let me break it down. You can give up, up to 40% of your sales, I've even heard tell of some sites wanting more then that. In exchange you get a platform to sell your content, all the payment processing by the clips site and they host your content for sale.…
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03Jan 2012 by jennydemilo

Happy New Year

photography
New years eve photo. However I did put on pants before I left the house. I'm good like that. [caption id="attachment_1681" align="aligncenter" width="300"] Who needs to breath when can look this good[/caption]
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