You dont have to be a star baby

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1357" align="alignleft" width="212" caption="Say Cheeze"][/caption]I am not a porn star, not even close. I have never had sex on film for money, not once. Granted i did bust out the video camera once with a guy i was dating and filmed a little blow job, once upon a time but it was only for our personal use and i still have the tape (its stuck in the broken camera!) and well come on who hasn't done that! I've been accused of being a porn star more often then i think is warranted. Its true that i make fetish videos and that in these videos i sometimes show off my amazing all natural milky white boobs. I also have numerous nudie pictures of me floating around the tubes. But that…
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Sexy Work

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1342" align="alignleft" width="270" caption="Nothing about us without us "][/caption]What is a sex worker? The term sex work was created by sex workers themselves and is deliberately vague. Sex workers encompass a lot of different kinds of sex work. Yes, there are all kinds. Sex worker is not euphemism for prostitute, though prostitutes are sex workers.  Sex workers can be Cam girls, porn stars, erotic masseuses, escorts, Professional Dommes, Strippers, Phone sex operators. Basically people who use their sexuality and emotional labor for their job are sex workers. They work both in the legal side of sex work and the underground illegal world of sex work. I personally work in both. I currently do a lot of different kinds of sex work but for a long time i was simply…
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Love letters

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1333" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="To whom it may concern "][/caption]It happened again as it does almost weekly. Another women not in the sex for money biz asking me for help in how to get into the sex for money biz. I have written over and over again who I'm not going to help people get into turning tricks. Not going to do it so stop asking me. Since they all seem to find me via this blog were i specifically stated i will NOT help you i find int baffling why i still get these emails. The email usually come in two forms.     A. I'm a educated self assured women who wants to get into the business and have real relationships with a few rich men. B. I'm…
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Milquetoast

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1320" align="alignleft" width="235" caption="Which way to go"][/caption]New direction, new focus, new, new, new. I've been writing this blog for close to 4 years and when I started, it was a place for me to comment on my life of being a hooker. How i saw myself, my place as it were in the escort world. A place where I could speak freely with out reprisals from moderators on message boards and website owners. Since the bulk of the culture at that time was focused on the all mighty message board. It was a place and a way where i controlled my content, could find my voice, and speak my mind and my truth. Though naive and silly me I did suffer reprisals from my blogging by unscrupulous ass hats…
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Adult content?

sex work
So Youtube in all their wisdom has spent some time removing my video clips from their site because they are now considered after 100K views to be"adult content" and or my "INTENTION" and sole purpose was convey sexual gratification. Of course that's all bullocks. Its not "adult content" its my mouth with some spit. My intention was to drive traffic and well if you got a hard-on and it made you uncomfortable because you saw me spitting and drooling then that's on you... uptight prude. This clip was also removed from the fetish site Wewhipass  for being "nasty" (yes the same site i watched a clip of a guy being lashed in public and another getting fucked in the ass with a strap on) and then later i was told…
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