18Oct 2011 by jennydemilo

Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1621" align="alignleft" width="183"] time time time[/caption]Stop adding time wasters to shared safety blacklists for dangerous clients! Yes, that's right you heard me, knock that shit off. A blacklist is for serious issues. Not because some one's a dumb fuck or annoying obnoxious gnat in email. That's what your PERSONAL blacklist is for. Shared safety blacklists are for SAFETY ISSUES and and your not helping buy putting  people who are just stupid fucks on blacklists.  If you don't know the difference between a safety issue and some jerk off fucking with your time, then my god its time to talk stock in your business practices and do some self reflection. We all have annoying time wasters up in our in boxes. In fact there's  this hilarious time waster dedicate website…
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09Oct 2011 by jennydemilo

Ripped Off

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1606" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="getting ripped off!"][/caption]A civvie friend of mine, from way before high school, I've pretty much known him all my life tells me he's broken up with his girlfriend and is thinking about seeing a hooker. Now the funny thing is this friend of mine doesn't know I'm a escort! He  knows I work as a Pro Domme, he knows I know something about the sex business and that I'm open minded and have never judged him about anything. I give him the low down, I tell him how not to get ripped off. How to cross check reviews to ads, where to look for reviews, what mall sites to look on, how to check phone numbers, reputations, web presence and most of all how to spot…
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27May 2011 by jennydemilo

Escorts.com Is shutting down

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1443" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="RIP E.com "][/caption]Escorts.com is shutting down in just a few days. Its really to bad i liked that site. I suppose we all should have seen the writing on the wall when a few months back they took all their reviews off line "for maintenance" Before that the company that owns then under went a little visit by federal authorities. Now no one really knows if they were visited because of Escorts.com as the company has its hands in several business from 800 numbers, to webcam sites, to adult film distribution. So really who knows but what we do know is they are shutting escorts.com down end of May. Escorts.com was a great resource for smaller city touring, it was the resource for small town touring.…
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24Apr 2011 by jennydemilo

Not all money is good money

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1421" align="alignleft" width="210" caption="No one wants to fuck Grumpy"][/caption]As an escort you sometimes have to put up with a negative client or potential client. The client that wants you to "sell" yourself to them, the kind that think you need to impress him, woo him, seduce him into booking an appointment with you. They often have a "prove it to me" attitude. These same types of guys also love to tell hot chicks at the strip club no. I think they just go to the strip club so that they can tell hot girls no, when the girls are just  doing their jobs and trying to hustle dances. I never go out of my way to book those style of potential clients, in fact just the opposite.  I usually…
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19Mar 2011 by jennydemilo

Milquetoast

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1320" align="alignleft" width="235" caption="Which way to go"][/caption]New direction, new focus, new, new, new. I've been writing this blog for close to 4 years and when I started, it was a place for me to comment on my life of being a hooker. How i saw myself, my place as it were in the escort world. A place where I could speak freely with out reprisals from moderators on message boards and website owners. Since the bulk of the culture at that time was focused on the all mighty message board. It was a place and a way where i controlled my content, could find my voice, and speak my mind and my truth. Though naive and silly me I did suffer reprisals from my blogging by unscrupulous ass hats…
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