Domme-land, escort-land and the all mighty reference
[caption id="attachment_1384" align="alignleft" width="265" caption="Another day at the office "][/caption]I am both an escort and a professional Domme. I work in both worlds and though both are sex work there are particulars and specifics to each niche. For example references. In escort-land references have become very common place. It's one of the ways all parties stay safe. As an escort I ask for a reference all the time, it's given that I will ask for them and check them after one is given. In Domme-land... not so much. The fetish providers haven't embraced the reference system the way the escorts have. Likely because being a Domme is legal sex work. Well, for the most part. However Domme's can and do get arrested for solicitation. There are fetish activities that cross…