Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1621" align="alignleft" width="183"] time time time[/caption]Stop adding time wasters to shared safety blacklists for dangerous clients! Yes, that's right you heard me, knock that shit off. A blacklist is for serious issues. Not because some one's a dumb fuck or annoying obnoxious gnat in email. That's what your PERSONAL blacklist is for. Shared safety blacklists are for SAFETY ISSUES and and your not helping buy putting  people who are just stupid fucks on blacklists.  If you don't know the difference between a safety issue and some jerk off fucking with your time, then my god its time to talk stock in your business practices and do some self reflection. We all have annoying time wasters up in our in boxes. In fact there's  this hilarious time waster dedicate website…
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Boston Police Brutally Assault Occupy Boston

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1613" align="aligncenter" width="283" caption="occupy boston"][/caption] [editors note: my colleague and friend "Mommy Fiercest" is in Boston right now with the #OccupyBoston protester. I saw this on her blog, I'm cross-posting it here. Sex workers are part of the 99%] *FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE October 11th, 2011* Contacts: OccupyBostonMedia@gmail.com Twitter: @occupyBOS_media At 1:30 this morning hundreds of police in full riot gear brutally attacked Occupy Boston, which had peacefully gathered on the Rose Kennedy Greenway. The Boston Police Department made no distinction between protesters, medics, or legal observers, arresting legal observer Urszula Masny-Latos, who serves as the Executive Director for the National Lawyers Guild, as well as four medics attempting to care for the injured. Earlier in the day, an estimated ten thousand union members, students, veterans, families, men, and women of all…
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Ripped Off

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1606" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="getting ripped off!"][/caption]A civvie friend of mine, from way before high school, I've pretty much known him all my life tells me he's broken up with his girlfriend and is thinking about seeing a hooker. Now the funny thing is this friend of mine doesn't know I'm a escort! He  knows I work as a Pro Domme, he knows I know something about the sex business and that I'm open minded and have never judged him about anything. I give him the low down, I tell him how not to get ripped off. How to cross check reviews to ads, where to look for reviews, what mall sites to look on, how to check phone numbers, reputations, web presence and most of all how to spot…
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You charge too much

photography, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1588" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="Its not the gun, its the shooter"][/caption]I'm in business to make money. I know some people might find that odd, That I wouldn't be in business just for fun or as a weird hobby or just for sexual thrills which  is often what potential clients think or rather  what they hope to be true. I mean why else would I ever get a "you charge too much" email from someone wanting to hire me. Which happened to me very recently. I hadn't  gotten one of those emails in a long time. What made this email something I wanted to write about was because just earlier that day a friend of mine got something similar. An email, out of the blue to one of her ads telling…
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