Just a perfect blendship…

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1389" align="alignleft" width="240" caption="no this is you ..."][/caption]I know a lot of people but I don't have a lot of friends. By that i mean close friends, real friends, people you go out of your way for, feel for and want the best for when they are sad and hurting and  and  happy for then their lives are going good. I have a huge array of acquaintance and people i am friendly with. Especially in the business, where its hard to trust people. I have and I'm sure will again trust the wrong people. It's part of my make up to see the good in people first and not the bad. In sex work its hard to find kindred spirits and you long for a connection of other women…
Read More

Domme-land, escort-land and the all mighty reference

prostitution, sex work
[caption id="attachment_1384" align="alignleft" width="265" caption="Another day at the office "][/caption]I am both an escort and a professional Domme. I work in both worlds and though both are sex work there are particulars and specifics to each niche.  For example references. In escort-land references have become very common place. It's one of the ways all parties stay safe.  As an escort I ask for a reference all the time, it's  given that I will ask for them and check them after one is given. In Domme-land... not so much. The fetish providers haven't embraced the reference system the way the escorts have. Likely because being a Domme  is legal sex work. Well, for the most part. However Domme's can and do get arrested for solicitation. There are fetish activities that cross…
Read More

Toys in the attic

sex work
[caption id="attachment_1375" align="alignleft" width="209" caption="It's Purty! "][/caption]There's nothing I like better then sex toys in my mail. Okay there's a few things, like big fat stacks of cash, rainbows and sparkly ponies, but those doesn't invoke the giddy response of "ohhhh Prezzies" like random free stuff does.  I was contacted by the folks at Eden Fantasys, they liked the honesty of my blog (i love it when people like me) and wanted me to do a little write up on one of their products. Gotta love folks who want you to speak the truth. I figured why not. I like writing and i like sex toys so it was tailor made for little ole me. As i do with any of the product reviews I've written up i had this…
Read More

New Erotic Femdom Hypnosis

sex work
X-posted from Mistressdemilo.com - http://mistressdemilo.com/?page_id=16 [caption id="attachment_1367" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="A Pat Dry and Jenny DeMilo Production"][/caption]I was able to hook up with one of my rock-star music producer friends for a little collaborative effort on a new femdom hypnosis MP3. Yes, being a notorious Hollywood party girl does have its benefits. My friend and collaborator will have to remain under the Nom de Plume “Pat Dry“. A pseudonym as it were to shield his mainstream music career from the evil backlash that is Professional domination and fetish enthusiasm…heh. However this is the real deal and its kicked femdom erotic hypnosis up to a higher level.   The new Mp3 is called “Dickmatized” and its available though me directly or many of my clip studios Like Clippette or Clips4sale. It’s 24…
Read More