Jenny DeMilo

The personal DNS list

Getting on the road and getting naked

I was recently called a “veteran provider” I never really thought of myself like that but i supposed that’s an accurate description as I’ve been an working escort for a number of years, (think 5+) I live in Los Angeles and I’ve toured across the country to both large and small cities, selling a tasty bite of Jenny D. Even if you don’t live in LA there have been opportunities to see me in other parts of the country. Also I travel by request, the men with means have flown me to their city at their schedule when the mood has struck them.

I’m very careful about who I get naked with and have often been told I’m a tough screener. I’m all about the minimized risk and the feedback I’ve gotten from my upscale and in some cases high profile clients have all been positive, as it makes them more comfortable knowing that I’m careful. Being careful means there is less of an opportunity that I will get in to trouble and they feel that that’s good for them as well as me. Which can be comforting as prostitution is still illegal and every one’s got something to lose. No matter who you are.

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If you’ve been involved in the escort subculture for any number of years and by involved i mean INVOLVED, you post on message boards, you are member of several boards, you’re a reviewer with many reviews of the hookers you fucked under your belt, then you’ve probably heard of me. I either toured to your city and posted an ad you might have seen, or you saw some media I did about being an escort or maybe even you’ve seen a post or two from this blog posted on your men’s only site, or local hobbyist message board. I’m a little hard to ignore and I’m a pretty good marketer. There is also a good chance you’ve had an opportunity to meet me in person, to book an appointment, to do the do in a hotel room until you couldn’t see straight. If you haven’t seized upon that opportunity already for whatever your personal reasons are…. Not your type, out of your price range, you think I’m a big meanie, your intimidated, to short, or I’m too tall.. whatever it may be, then you’re probably never going to book me. Hey not everyone is every one’s cup of tea. That’s the beauty of it. We all have our personal preferences, I know I have mine.

When  people who have had opportunity after opportunity to see a provider and never do, then choose to run their fat mouths on a message board about hookers, talking about how that escort is now on their personal DNS list (do not see) when its obvious they never had any intention of seeing her, it kinda lays flat. Sure they might whip up their message board cyberlocker room “bros” a little but everyone can see how transparent that is. And really why are grown men making declarations on message boards about which hookers they don’t wanna bang. Is that really information people care about?

I don’t think it is. I don’t think who another dude doesn’t want to screw influences someone on who THEY do wanna bang. Its an exercise in self importance  to make proclamations on which hookers you don’t wanna screw and why. Especially when everyone knows its a rouse because you never had any intention of seeing them in the first place. Are the “hobbyists” who act out in such a way doing it because they really think that other dudes will follow their lead in hopes of detouring business from a provider they don’t care for? As if other dudes are the thing that influence their cocks and not the hot sexy bitches who provide play for pay companionship. Or is it because they think they have control over a hookers business as if they, a well known hobbyist could have any bearing on that business because their wield such influence that their dicks decide for everyone!

It not large or in charge

Men screw who they want to screw and some other dudes opinion of a women isn’t going to influence a man when he wants to fuck a woman. It especially isn’t going to influence some guy on who he want to pay for some pussy. So whenever i catch wind (and i always catch wind) of some loud mouth on a message board trying to use his “position” as a hobbyist to try to influence to a detriment a hooker who they don’t like and never would see but then has the audacity to think their position as a hobbyist could influence another mans cock, it leads me to fits of laughter. It comes clearly into focus that those guys, who try to go the “she’s now on my DNS list” route, not only have no understanding of the escort business but are so unaware if their own sexuality and sexual power (or lack there of) that he doesn’t even know how a mans dick works… when he owns one.

5 thoughts on “The personal DNS list

  1. Ethan

    Great post. You’d be surprised (or maybe you wouldn’t) how many times I’ve seen your “Men screw who they want to screw and some other dudes opinion of a women isn’t going to influence a man when he wants to fuck a woman” theory put the test. And not once have I seen it disproved 🙂

  2. mdrider

    DNS = preoccupation with one’s own opinion and importance. It is the modern day equivalent to the fable “The fox & The grapes”,trash what you are too cheap,lazy,or scared to obtain.

    A screening process not only benefits the provider,it benefits her clients as well.It tells me she cares about herself and the company she keeps.Screening takes time and effort and can be tedious and exasperating,meet the provider
    half way and get a Date-Check verification,it greatly benefits both parties. Screening tells me that a provider actually gives a hoot about herself and her clients and that is always a plus when meeting for the first time.

    Thanks for keeping it real Jenny!

    Best wishes…… ;-}

    mdrider

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  4. Emily Jones

    Forums about sex work and sex workers (inevitably overrun with overexcited men who accidentally or purposefully hound out the women, I’ve found) used to disturb me greatly. I thought I was peeking insightfully into the thoughts and dreams of MY potential customer base and that thought made me understandably sad and also afraid for my personal safety.

    But then I gradually realised that my advertising copy and rates craftily repel all but the most astute, brave and comfortably wealthy of men and so I breathed a sigh of relief. Thank god those forums can’t keep me awake at night worrying anymore! Srsly! I kinda hope one day every hobbyist-forum-ho-nitpicker realises that all he’s doing is making the sensible bitches tailor their services towards men who are not him. Ha.

    But I worry about the young and impressionable ones, as always. 🙁